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You Are Not Alone
← Where are you right now?

Something has just happened

Take a breath. Whatever has happened, it was not your fault, and you do not have to work everything out right now. We'll go gently, one step at a time.

First, are you safe?

  • If you are in danger or hurt, call 999 now.
  • If you can, go somewhere you feel safer, or be with someone you trust.
  • For urgent medical advice that isn't an emergency, call NHS 111.

Some reassurance

  • Shock, numbness, shaking, tears or feeling nothing at all are all normal reactions.
  • You are allowed to take your time. There is no single right way to respond.
  • Reaching out, even just to read this page, is a brave thing to do.

Your options

  • You can choose whether or not to report to the police — now, later, or not at all.
  • A Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC) can offer medical care and, if you wish, keep forensic evidence while you decide.
  • You can talk to someone in confidence without making any decision.

Small practical steps

  • If you might want evidence kept, try not to wash or throw away clothing yet — but only if that feels possible.
  • Write down anything you remember, whenever you feel able. It doesn't need to be tidy.
  • Drink some water, keep warm, and let yourself rest.

When you are ready, you can tell us what's happening and we will be here beside you.

I NEED SUPPORT

If you are in immediate danger, call 999.

Urgent medical help: NHS 111. Samaritans, any time: 116 123 (free). More support and resources

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